Hearing Our Own Stories
Dec 22, 2017 By Zohar Atkins | Commentary | Vayiggash
Although we know how it ends, this week鈥檚 Torah reading can be, by turns, anxiety-provoking, cathartic, and unsettling. We know a reconciliation between the brothers will take place, but we don鈥檛 fully understand how. We know a peace deal will be reached, but we suspect that, like all new agreements, its character will be tenuous, fragile, and ad hoc, its consensus constructed atop a minefield of lingering resentments and fundamentally conflicting narratives.
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The Hanukkah Story I Need to Hear This Year
Dec 15, 2017 By David Hoffman | Commentary | Hanukkah
Stories have great power. We tell stories about ourselves and about our communities because they give our lives meaning, and they help us navigate between the past and the future. We use stories to help us make sense of the world and our place in it. Not far behind the seemingly innocent plots of many of the stories we tell about our community’s religious history lie profound cultural responses to our most pressing questions about what it means to be a human being and how to live life well.
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Yosef: A Light in the Darkness
Dec 8, 2017 By Eitan Fishbane | Commentary | Vayeshev | Hanukkah
Parashat Vayeshev takes us deep into the pain and alienation of being human, of yearning from a low place of darkness and suffering. And yet the narrative also conveys the power of hope鈥攁 longing for God and redemption, for spiritual and moral healing in our human relationships.
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Can We Grow?
Dec 29, 2017 By Deborah Miller | Commentary | Vayehi
Family relationships are often complicated, but the family of Jacob is a particularly jumbled mess. In this week鈥檚 parashah, the story has hints and echoes of a decades-long, tangled skein of family dynamics. We see these in two particularly problematic scenes in this parashah. Both scenes illustrate William Faulkner鈥檚 truism that 鈥渢he past is never dead. It’s not even past.鈥� And in this story, we see how the past leaks into the future.
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Wrestling the Angels and the Demons within Us
Dec 1, 2017 By Jonathan Milgram | Commentary | Vayishlah
In this week鈥檚 Torah reading, Parashat Vayishlah, we read of the patriarch Jacob鈥檚 journey home with his family after freeing himself and his entire clan from his father-in-law, Laban鈥檚, control. Along the route, Jacob prepares himself for his eventual reunion with his older twin brother Esau, whom he fears to be vengeful. Right in the middle of the parashah, in between the description of Jacob鈥檚 preparations and his actual meeting with Esau, Jacob is involved in a transformative experience: a physical struggle with a stranger.
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Escaping a Toxic Relationship
Nov 24, 2017 By Lilly Kaufman | Commentary | Vayetzei
Poor Jacob is triply triangulated in Parashat Vayetzei! His boss, Laban, is not only his uncle, Rebecca鈥檚 older brother, but also his father-in-law, Leah and Rachel鈥檚 father. Leah and Rachel are bitter rivals, Leah resenting Jacob鈥檚 love for Rachel, and Rachel wishing for children when God has blessed only Leah with fertility. Complicating this tangle of relationships is the fact that Jacob and Laban work together, and Laban is not a fair employer.
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A Family of Covenant
Nov 17, 2017 By Daniel Nevins | Commentary | Toledot
The stories of Genesis are presented as family portraits, but simultaneously they describe the origins of a religious civilization. How did the people of Israel acquire and maintain its distinctive religious mission? Genesis offers not only a window into Israel鈥檚 past, but a blueprint for its future. Implicit is an invitation to contribute to this unfolding narrative, attaching the threads of our lives to the tapestry woven by our ancestors.
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Leaving Home
Nov 10, 2017 By Eliezer B. Diamond z”l | Commentary | Hayyei Sarah
To the best of my knowledge, Hayyei Sarah contains the only instance in Tanakh of a parent asking his child鈥檚 wishes. Laban and Betuel cannot come to an agreement with Abraham鈥檚 servant鈥攚ho we鈥檒l call Eliezer鈥攁bout whether Rebecca should remain in Haran for a time or depart immediately to Canaan. And so, they ask Rebecca to state her preference. Contrary to her family鈥檚 express wishes, Rebecca decides to leave immediately.
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