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Things are not always as they appear to be. And when assumptions are based on circumstantial or incomplete evidence, we are often surprised or disappointed by what unfolds. My son, who is traveling for a few months after graduating from college, shared this experience in his blog:

I arrived at the nearby train station. I had told Polly (one of my hosts) over the phone that I鈥檇 arrive at 1:15 on the train. As I waited for my transfer, [my destination] appeared on the departures board as a picture of a bus. I looked around and saw other people heading outside the station and figured it couldn鈥檛 hurt to follow them. Sure enough, my 鈥渢rain鈥� was a bus. And when it arrived at the prearranged time鈥攚hen Polly had said she would be there to pick me up鈥擨 found myself alone at the station.

Well, almost alone. There was a woman, face barely visible beneath rings and chains of metal, sitting on a bench beside a young blonde girl, who, a few minutes [later] asked in French if I鈥檇 come on the train. Apparently I responded in French that I鈥檇 come on a bus, though this I don鈥檛 remember; nor do I know how to conjugate that response. After a few more minutes, I got the idea, turned to them, and asked if they were waiting for me. In fact, they were. This literal 鈥渕etal-head鈥� was Polly, the British woman with whom I鈥檇 been corresponding, and the blonde was her very young-looking 19-year-old daughter, Summer Rose, whom I hadn鈥檛 known to exist.

My son was confused by his assumptions and expectations. If one were to read Genesis simply as a work of literature, one could assume that a major leitmotif of the book is that appearances can be deceiving. Patriarchs introduce their wives as their sisters, brothers bring a bloodied coat to their father as evidence of death, and Jacob dons animal skins to secure his father鈥檚 blessing.

In this week鈥檚 parashah, Va-yishlah, the narrative begins with yet another story in which what is seen is misleading. Jacob prepares carefully for his meeting with his estranged brother Esau. First, he sends messengers to Esau, who report that Esau is coming with an entourage of 400 men to meet Jacob. Jacob is frightened, because he is unable to decipher Esau鈥檚 intent. He divides his camp in two and prays for God鈥檚 assistance and protection.

The next morning, Jacob sends gifts to his brother as a tactic to lessen the hostility he assumes Esau feels toward him. The gifts are arranged in droves of goats, sheep, camels, cows, and donkeys, each grouping presented on the heels of the preceding flock. The total number of animals offered as gifts is 550, a generous and impressive number, meant to incur Esau鈥檚 favor. Even the Hebrew term minhah, used here to mean gift, encourages ambiguity. It can mean a gift of respect and friendship or an offering in recognition of the giver鈥檚 lower status. Jacob鈥檚 intent is to blur reality, and instill confusion in Esau鈥檚 mind regarding his stature.

We know that the reunion of Jacob and Esau ends in reconciliation, but not before Jacob鈥檚 solitary encounter with an angel. The night before meeting his brother, Jacob moves his family and entire camp across the Jabbok River, and remains alone on the bank nearest to Esau鈥檚 approach route. He then wrestles with a 鈥渕an鈥� until the break of dawn. 鈥�Vayivater Yaakov l鈥檝ado, vayeavek ish imo ad alot hashachar.鈥� The meaning of the Hebrew verb vayeavek is unclear, and creates a play on the names Jacob and Jabbok. Rashi suggests that the verb is connected to both avak (dust) and chavak (to entangle). Are Jacob and the angel simply kicking up dust, or are they meaningfully entangled? Is the mysterious man an evil omen, meant to weaken Jacob before he meets his brother, or is this an instance of Jacob wrestling with his conscience? Jacob has never been what he seemed; his actions have all involved deceitful motivations. He tricked his father, he ran from Esau, and he snuck away from Laban鈥檚 house. Many of Jacob鈥檚 important acts involved misleading or incomplete motives.

The poem 鈥淭o a Louse,鈥� penned in 1785 by the British poet Robert Burns, illustrates in verse the consequences of misreading a situation. In the poem, a louse crawls onto the bonnet of a beautiful young woman as she sits in church. She incorrectly believes that the winks and stares she receives from congregants are on account of her beauty and lovely hat. In the concluding stanza of the poem, Burns comments: 鈥淥 wad some Power the giftie gie us, to see oursels as ithers see us!鈥� If only we could see ourselves as others do, Burns writes. When we make assumptions based on our perceptions alone, we can easily mislead ourselves.

 In the dead of night, before his encounter with Esau, Jacob is given the gift to see himself as God sees him. While the angel wounds Jacob physically and emotionally, the Torah tells us that, when Jacob arrives in Shechem following the encounter, he is wounded in his hip socket, but he is safe and whole (shalem) [Gen. 33:18], and he has a new name. He is no longer Jacob, the man of entanglement, but rather Israel, father of a great nation. It is only when Jacob is given the gift of honest struggle before God that he becomes Israel. He names the place of the wrestling contest Peniel, meaning 鈥淔ace of God.鈥� The one face that Jacob cannot manipulate is that of God.

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